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I love my native California, but sometimes it’s hard not to view it as a caricature of itself. Take the latest supermarket offering: hemp milk. Yes, it’s actually made from cannabis plants , but – as the manufacturers hasten to assure us – it contains only trace amounts of THC, the element that gets you…

Rich could have modeled for this! My husband recently experienced his worst jet lag ever. We had just arrived in England, and for the first three days he was an absolute zombie – exhausted, forgetful, dozing off at odd times in inappropriate places. This was especially disturbing since we’d flown there from Spain, where the…

Lindsay, Everett, and Ross in New Zealand My husband is blessed with the ability to move from one country to another with the ease of a man strolling from room to room in his own home. I, on the other hand, used to suffer horribly from culture lag , feeling disoriented and off-kilter every time…

A very young Woody Harrelson tending bar in Cheers So the joke goes that at an Irish wedding reception, the master of ceremonies calls out, “Would all the married men please stand next to the one person who has made your life worth living?” And the bartender is nearly crushed to death. Where would we…

As you may have guessed, Rich and I are not timid travelers. But entering Bulgaria for the first time last fall, I admit I felt a little trepidation. Cheap action movies had imprinted vivid, if largely inaccurate, images on my brain, and I half expected everyone I met there – male or female – to…

Rich’s birthday is this Friday, and he wants to celebrate on the rails. So we’re departing soon for a train trip through England, Scotland and Ireland. I won’t be posting much this week, but if any of you have suggestions for things to do in York, Edinburgh, Glasgow or Cork, I’d love to hear from…

“I just need three more days of this!” Thailand 1992 “I just need three more days!” Rich used to protest at the end of every two-week vacation from corporate life. We once managed a month in Asia, and the final week, sitting in café overlooking a bus station in India, he said, “I could definitely…

At a party in Bucharest last fall, I met a stocky, middle-aged Austrian who hinted broadly that he’d had sex with all the best women in the city. Not for the first time, I reflected that one of the enormous advantages of getting older was not having to worry that he would attempt to add…

My café con leche this morning I always thought Americans drank a lot of coffee, but when I moved to Spain, I realized that most of us are total lightweights compared to my new espresso-swilling amigos. Sevillanos drink their coffee strong enough to reanimate the dead , late enough in the evenings to cause permanent…

I’ve learned to believe a lot of impossible things since I moved to Seville: eating more often helps you stay thin , for instance, ham lowers your cholesterol , and afternoon siestas make it easier for you to sleep at night . But I had to scoff last week when my friend Rena said, over…